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Fortunately for me, days 7 and 8 of writer's camp fit so perfectly together. Because they're both about loooooove. First, I'm gonna talk about love stories that are not love stories. Friendship stories. Sister stories. Brother stories. And then I'm gonna jump into love stories that are love stories. This shall be funnn. muahahaha.
So. Friendship. I love how Bella put this into the Camp because she is so passionate about it. Seriously, go read her post. And I completely agree. I love stories about friendship and I hate (HATE) when people mess that up. Like fan fictions that make things all wrong. Friends are friends and it's good to be friends.
I think one of the reasons that this is something I'm so passionate about is because...well, I've never been in a relationship, but I have so many rich and beautiful friendships. Me and my siblings are really close, and I've got some amazing sisters in Christ that are basically siblings. I connect to this.
Me and my older sister (by 18 months) are probably my best example of this in real life. Everyone always used to think we were twins because we hung out soooo much together that we would finish each others sentences, we could tell what the other one was thinking with just a look, and we had the exact same sense of humor (mostly because it was interwebbed with thousands of inside jokes). And we would die for each other...without even a second thought. She's the Fili to my Kili, the Pippin to my Merry, the Hornblower to my Kennedy, the Robin to my Much, the Arthur to my Merlin...etc. etc. etc.
I think that Bella really hit it in her post--we especially need more sister stories. We have loads of romances, and actually a lot of brother stories, but even looking at my list up there, they're all guys. We desperately need some more rich sister stories.
Okay, I blew over that one kind of quick, but unless you want to be here for hours, I better jump onto the next half of love.
Love love.
Okay, so this one I'm actually surprisingly really passionate about. Not because I'm like WE NEED MORE ROMANCE but because I'm like...
Okay, guys, seriously. Marriage is the reflection of Christ as the Bridegroom and His church, the bride. Ephesians 5:25-33, yo:
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as also Christ is the head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself an glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless, let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Mind = blown. Every. Single. Time. This is marriage. This is love. Why is this not in stories more? We are so ridden with a perverted form of love these days. So much of the exact opposite of all of this (and yet we are told that it...works out? somehow?). I think that it starts with strong male characters paired by equally strong (but not in the way the world would think of strong) female characters. Characters that complement each other. Husbands that adore their brides and give their lives for them, that protect and cherish and love, love, love, just like Christ loves, loves, loves us. (Humans are flawed. I get this. These guys are gonna make mistakes. But there are godly men out there who are desiring to reflect Christ. Not just a bunch of jerks.) Wives that think their husbands are just...the greatest thing, that run to them with their everything, that uphold them, that cherish them, that get all starry-eyed when they think of them, but are also willing to put in the hard work to uphold the relationship.
Our generation is plagued by the fact that the only "role models" we have (at least in the media) are Lovers. We need more husbands, more wives, more mothers and fathers, digging further into this concept of marriage and family and what a glorious and beautiful thing it is--a thing to be protected and guarded and kept sacred.
We have a King who adores us--His bride. Let's reflect that in our writing.
(I could go on. I shouldn't. It's late. And I still have the tag to do.)
SO! The tag. Sorry to blow through those pretty quickly. They were awesomesaucetastic topics!
But on ho. These are the questions that I am to answer (Thanks again, Michaila!):
What is the name and what does he/she look like of your favored character?
Okay, I'm assuming that all of these are about my writing. Eep! That means.....revealing stuff..... XD So I love all of my characters and choosing one is like choosing a favorite child. But, I shall choose ONE to tell you all about.
Her name is Aelis (pronounced AY-Lish) and she is from my fantasy trilogy. She's 5'8" and has long, curly, auburn hair that she mostly wears up in like a french twist or bun or something. She is very elegant in form and personality, and so she's just....full of grace. And she wears awesome clothes.
What would you describe your writing style as?
Oh goodness. I don't know. I guess.... a humble take on the epic forms, laced with humor and fun dialogue, with characters that are relatable and believable, but also are heroes. If that makes any sense.....
How much writing do you complete in a week?
HA. Don't ask me that. It's tragic, really. I've gotten about......1000 (MAYBE, probably less) words in the past 7 months. Not including poetry, but still. *cries*
Plotting...on a note card, in a notebook, or in your brain?
Mostly in my brain. And in scattered notebooks and pieces of paper that happened to be closest to my bed when I got an idea I didn't want to forget at night.
What does your book couple's wedding look like?
I love this question after what we talked about earlier. Welllll it obviously depends on which couple. But I'll go with that one. Yes. And I won't tell you who it is either but I love them.
Their wedding would be in early spring, when the flowers are just starting to come out, and the colors are still gentle (the leaves are a little paler and the sky is a little lighter, you know?). Her bouquet would be purple lilies and baby's breath. Her hair would be in one of those tucked up styles with a pretty barrette and some wisps of hair framing her face. Her dress would be elegant and not too blingy or poofy. I think it would be quarter-length lace sleeves with a square neckline. She'd wear a necklace matching her barrette and earrings and a simple bracelet. Her bridesmaids would be in sage green with white sashes. He would be wearing a white shirt and a green vest with brown or grey pants. His groomsmen would probably be wearing grey vests instead. Oh and it would be outdoors, obviously, with minimal added decorations (because the location would be perfection....aspen trees and the ocean in the background and green grass). And it would be fabulous and I would cry. (I think he will too.)
Ever sketch your characters? Care to share?
I do, actually. I'm not really a good artist by any right, but I will......I guess I'll share ONE. This is my MC from my steampunk book, Amber Brighton.
When did you start to write?
When I was 13ish. So probably about 6 years ago.
What inspired you?
My sister. Our old doll games. Tolkien and countless other books.
What still inspires you?
My sister. Our old Lego games (hehe). Tolkien and countless other books. God, mostly. The Bible. Music. My friends.
What would your published book look like, inside and out?
Oooh. Well I want my Steampunk book to have an epic cover. I have it pictured in my mind....like the title, and right under the title, a pair of goggles, with one lens reflecting a smoggy, dirty city, and the other lens reflecting a single star. And I'm sure there'd be other stuff but I'd have to see it to make it perfect. And on the inside....well, I want it to look clean and nice and just a bit whimsical. If that makes sense. And have illustrations because I looooove illustrations. :-D
Thanks for the tag, Michaila! And thanks for everything, Bella! And thanks for reading, all!
Now I gotta get to bed.
YES. MORE SISTER STORIES. PREACH. Also, just recently I posted a zine collaborative on my blog, and was wondering if you'd be interested in potentially collaborating for a future issue? The info is in the post, and it'd be super cool if you were able to contribute! xD
ReplyDeletexoxo Morning
AW YISS. I'm glad you agree. I'll go check out that Zine thingy! Thanks for asking and I'll get back to you on that! :-)
DeleteSO CUTE!
ReplyDeleteGoodness THAT WEDDING!!! It's so lovely and picturesque, you described it perfectly and beautifully! There were a few things in there from my dream wedding ;)
Your favorite character sounds amazingly lovely. auburn/red hair is my favorite :D.
-Mic
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DeleteThank youuuu! <3s And thanks for the awesome tag.
It was so, so weird doing the seventh day of Writing Camp: I honestly didn't expect to find ANY examples and rather....taught myself a lot.
ReplyDeleteLEGO and doll games... *grins* invaluable.
I WANT TO READ YOUR BOOK!!!
EXCEPT I WANT IT TO END WELL WHEN I DO!!
Yeah! It's sad that it's hard to find examples.
DeleteYES. I loved Lego and doll games. We had sooo many of both because we got Legos consistently for Christmas and Birthdays and we made our own rag dolls. :-D
XD IT'S NOT EVEN NEAR DONE. I have like a chapter and a half. XD
And it will end well. I don't like writing stories that don't.
Also hard because I'm generally against the whole idea... It was...interesting.
DeleteWe mostly had Mega Blocks but...Same thing really.I mean, for kids.
DUST. MOTE. STORY!!!!!!!
MEGA BLOCKS ARE NOT LEGOS.
Deletesorry, old tensions coming out.
*laughing* We learnt that about four years ago.
ReplyDeleteBut for thirteen years of my life we called them Lego and they were almost the only toys we had so.... Don't care what the technically name is: they work the same and you can build barbie houses with Mega Blocks because they're bigger and thus you don't need to buy as many for little kids that are living in a semi-truck driving all across country never really getting out to play.
*grins*